She’s about feeling and commitment; he ain’t
Dear Carolyn:
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years now, and we are in our mid-20s. We both concur we are very happy together right now, as well as in the foreseeable future. He does not, however, really believe in projecting deep into the future and basing major decisions on how we might feel — for instance, “We might still want to be together in 45 years, so let’s get married now.”
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